I am an older woman living alone in what is generally known as a 'California bungalow'. Before the Corona virus I led a busy life, belonging to several organisations such as U3A, and including a performance group run by the Older Women's Network. I used t

I am an older woman living alone in what is generally known as a 'California bungalow'. Before the Corona virus I led a busy life, belonging to several organisations such as U3A, and including a performance group run by the Older Women's Network. I used to sometimes ponder how I would cope if I could no longer get out and about. To my surprise I am enjoying social isolation.

I still go out to buy food and medications but, like everyone else at present, I have no social life. Instead I read, write cards, phone people, do puzzles, tidy cupboards, sort through papers, join Zoom meetings, answer emails and do gardening. Yes, I am lucky enough to have a garden. I know the weeds will take over in the end but I find pulling them out very satisfying.

I really enjoy having a leisurely breakfast and not having to rush to get somewhere, and I enjoy being able to read for pleasure without feeling I should be doing something more 'useful'. What I am missing are hugs and back rubs, physical contact. Also having lunch and a glass of wine somewhere with a friend, or even the ritual of a cup of coffee in a café while reading the paper.